Friday, September 30, 2011

Making Thank You Notes

I was brought up with the philosophy of using proper etiquette.  I was told to send thank you notes after receiving gifts on my birthdays, my graduation, my wedding, baby showers, etc. .  I did them, but only because I was told to.
Having a rebellious personality, I fought with the “old fashioned” expectations that my parents regularly placed upon me.  Don’t get me wrong, I did appreciate the gifts that I received.  I understood that I should acknowledge that it was an honor to receive the gifts that I did.  Having limitations on my own expression of gratitude felt very demeaning to me.
With this said, my youngest daughter had her birthday last week.  She on the other hand is impatiently waiting for me to help her write her thank you notes, even as I type.  LOL!  Hmmm.  She loves making notes and sending cards to people in the mail.  This is a great way for her to express her gratitude in her own way.  I am definitely going to encourage this! 
She received an American Doll  creative card making pad  for her birthday!  This gives her the ability to create 29 cards, easily and independently.  She is so excited! 
1
Here is a peek at the card maker pad with a few tips on how to write a thank you note.
2
3
4
5
6
8
Whether its making a phone call, thanking them personally, sending an e-card or dropping them a thank you note in the mail,  acknowledgement from the heart is key. 
Showing your gratitude is necessary to demonstrate your humility.  Teaching your children this quality will help them become unostentatious as adults.